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7 Tips for becoming a new Rasta



  1. Stay open-minded – As a new Rastafari, it is important to bob-marleystay open-minded. There are many people, books, and much history to learn from. Never assume you “know all there is to know” about Rastafari…this is the point where you may stop learning.
  2. Rastafari is not a religion – Never Refer to Rastafari as a Religion. Rasta refers to Rastafari as “a faith” “a Livity ” a meditation” “a spirituality” “a way of Life” but never a Religion. Religion is of man, Rastafari comes from Jah.
  3. Accept your self as Growing –  Rastafari is something you will embrace your whole life. The more you love Jah, and his creations, the more his heart grows in yours. Know that to “grow” as a Rasta, is a beautiful process. accept it, embrace it,  and enjoy it…continuously.
  4. Love Jah! – Just love Jah and all things will fall into place through him. Jah is love!
  5. Love The African Image African woman, African man, rasta empressAfrican child, are all beauties of Rastafari.  Rasta knows the first man and woman were created in Ethiopia Africa. We see beauty in the image of the African human.
  6. Listen to “Rastafari Reggae Music” –  Rastafari only listen to Rastafari Reggae music. Why? We know this music is clean…and…we can here the word of Jah in this music.  You too should listen to “Jah” music.


  7. Know you are being Tested!

    – As soon as you embrace the Rastafari Livity you notice yourself being “tested”…left, right and center. It’s just that Satan  is “vex” because you have chosen to live in truth and walk in the light of Jah. its normal, keep trodding on the high rod. Jah is there. Check out my blog post on traditional Jamaican Foods.

Love & Blessings to All. King Selassie I.

How to Get a Jamaican Girl to Marry you!



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Give thanks and praises to the Most High.

This blog post was requested. So, I figured why not…sounds like fun. Here are 10 Tips to get a Jamaican Girl to Marry you!

#1 Potential Prospects?

If you want a Jamaican Girl to Marry You, you will have to ask her if any other men have asked for her hand in marriage in the last 30 days…in the last year? WE are hoping the answer is no.

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#2 Show her you clean up after your self

In Jamaican Culture both the men and the women are taught how to be equally clean. Men learn when they are little boys how to do the dishes, do the laundry and sweep and wash the floors. Show your Jamaican lady, that you know how to contribute…and keep a household clean.

#3 Shower Daily…

I know it sounds obvious to some…but hygiene is a VERY important part of Jamaican Culture. If you do not shower daily…your Jamaican woman may be talking badly behind your back about how she could never be with you because you are “Dutty!” Be sure to shower, brush your teeth and wear deodorant daily…I’m just saying.

#4 Never say no…

Never say “no” when she asks you for money…Jamaican women need money to do things like hair, nails, buy groceries, send money to family back home, etc. She may be in between Jobs, or looking after a family member back home. If your Jamaican woman asks you to help her out financially, never say no, simply say “I don’t have it right now.” Then, tell her when you can help her out…This is exactly how a Jamaican man treats a Jamaican woman, in this situation.

#5 Don’t try to change her….just accept her the way she is.

In Jamaican culture we don’t try to Change someone unless their behavior is extreme. Typically we accept people as they are and work around their idiosyncrasies.

#6 Give her space…

Jamaican women need their space…other wise we get Cranky. If you are in the same home, and she pulls away to go and read, or sit on the porch, don’t follow her. Just allow her 1- 2 hours to come around. Jamaican people are wired like this…its quite normal for us, to be a little distant in our relationships, at times.

#7 Engagement Ring Shopping…let her pick!

Want to get a Jamaican Girl to Marry you? Why not take her shopping just to “try on” some engagement Rings….Just tell her you want to do it for fun…. This is a great way to find out her ring size, and let her choose what style of ring she likes. Smart huh?

#8 Show your Strength & Independence

Make sure you have your sh..tuff.. together…Jamaican women like a man that is strong and independent. The reason is many Jamaican women have to carry the load of family, children, Sisters children etc. on their backs. Show your Jamaican Empress, that you have her back, because you have yourself together, and are not going to put another load on her back.

#9 A simple Touch…goes a long way

Hold her hand when the two of you are alone. I know it sounds silly, but Jamaicans are not well known for showing affection. Show your Jamaican Woman that you care for her, simply by holding her jamaican woman marry white manhand when you two are alone. This will help her to think of you as someone who is gentle, and someone who cares, and someone who is worthy of Marriage.

#10 Special Proposal Day…Somewhere new…

jamaican woman white man3On Proposal Day…take her somewhere you have never taken her before…so she doesnt expect anything…then when you are feeling good and ready…take out the engagement ring she said she liked…and ask her…”will you marry me?”

Jamaican women are very faithful, very strong, and will do anything to support and uplift their man. I hope these tips work.
Thanks for reading. Blessed. Jah.


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8 tips on dating a Jamaican man



  1. Show Respect to for his MotherIn Jamaican Culture respect for the mans Mother is so important. Never be disrespectful, always say “hi,” when you enter her home and make sure to say “bye” when you are leaving. Be sure to buy her a card for her birthday and Mothers day, otherwise you will be considered “rude” and “disrespectful.” Just so you know. If you do these things, you will be praised, and ask about.
  2. Don’t share too much personal information right awaySome jamaican man white womanJamaican men have Negative motives for why they may want your personal information. Just take your time with your stats. If I were you I would just lie to him for the first 3 months, and see where the relationship is going first. I am talking about your real last name, date of birth, and your address. Just take your time. If you were meant to be together you will be together 6 months from now.
  3. Make sure he is sincere – A Jamaican man may take an interest in your for any number of reasons. Only time will tell if he is really interested in your or something you can provide for him. Just keep it in the back of your mind that he may not be sincere, and remember that some Jamaican men love like children…in the moment, loving who ever is around. Just so you know. Read how to become a rasta. 
  4. Give him his space! – This is very important in Jamaican Culture. If you do not give a Jamaican man his space, he can become irritable. You may find him swearing at you and not showing you love, pulling away rather than closer. He just needs his own space and time alone. Many Jamaican women are like this too. Its nothing personal.jamaican-men
  5. Always keep your body fresh & clean! – Wash your a*s please! Jamaican men do not tolerate “dirtyness.”I know certain cultures don’t take it so serious, but to a Jamaican man, cleanliness is well, as they say, “next to Godliness.” Make sure you shower everyday and wash those creases! Yes I said it…creases!
  6. Don’t take his sh*t! – Don’t take crap from him. In fact if your Jamaican man starts dishing out trash talk early, or physical abuse, leave him..! It’s a downward spiral from there…trust me!
  7. Don’t be baby mama #4 – Many women fall so head over heals in love with their Jamaican guy that they think they are somehow different from baby Mama number 3,2, and 1. They think they can change him…they think, I am better than they were…stop kidding your self. Take some time, if he is really meant to be your man, he will be there with our without you becoming baby mama Number 4.
  8. Don’t assume you are “special…” – Just because he has sex with you, introduces you to his Mom, and tells you how much he wants to be with you, don’t assume you are special. A lot of women who are unfamiliar with Jamaican Culture, assume that these things mean you are special. A Jamaican man knows what to say to women, They are blessed in this sense. Take time, test him, know for sure you are special on his list, by how he treats you, is he patient with you? Will he do anything you ask of him? Test him to know!


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