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Jamaican Women: 21 things about dating a Jamaican woman

Ok guys so my new ebook “Jamaican Women” 21 things about dating a Jamaican woman. is out now. Try the first bit.

 

Jamaican Women
21 things about dating a Jamaican woman

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By
Empress Yuajah

This book is way over due. I am sorry to the people who searched for it and could not find it. So many things were happening at the time. I apologize. Please enjoy this eBook about Jamaican women. Check out some of my other work on Rasta Way of Life and Jamaican Culture.

eBooks by Empress Yuajah

1. “Rasta way of life” – Rastafari Livity Book
2. “White Rastafarianism” – How to become a white Rasta
3. “10 Jamaica vacation warnings” – The truth about the “other side” of Jamaica. A quick FYI foreigners visit Jamaica.
4. “Jamaican men: 21 things about dating Jamaican men” – Learn the truth about dating a Jamaican man living in Jamaica

Understanding Jamaican women and Culture

jamaican womanA Jamaican woman is different than any other woman. We have our minds set! We know what we want and what we don’t want! Jamaicans in general, don’t really believe in pretending to make others happy. We are not raised like that. Some find our way of living and thinking “harsh” but the truth is a Jamaican woman’s heart is soft as a Kitten…but wait, you will only see that side, once she has decided and realized on her own in her own time, that she does indeed love you. Until then things may be a little rough and tough.
A Jamaican woman’s mind set
You are probably a man who is not Jamaican. But, perhaps you have a crush on a Jamaican woman, or perhaps you are dating a Jamaican woman and want to learn a little bit more about her mind set and her way of life. I will do the best I can to explain things to you so that you close this book feeling as if you have just been the mind of a Jamaican woman. I have written for you “Jamaican Women: 21 things about dating a Jamaican woman.” Enjoy!
#1 She wears the pants
Jamaican women are taught from they are very young, to stand strong and don’t let anybody or anything defeat them in life. In most Jamaican households the woman wears the pants. This position is passed down from generation to generation, and from household to household. This ultimately means that the woman has the final say. The head woman is the most vocal, and the one who bosses everybody else around including children and husband. Just so you know. Jamaican women tend to be loud and aggressive when it comes to ruling and taking care of their household and their family. Anything less is seen as weak.
#2 The “Dutty” Jamaican gal
In Jamaican culture a woman who can physically fight and win, is seen as sort of a heroin, strong, and not weak. In Jamaican culture, coming to blows is normal just so you know. These types of Jamaican women are often known as dirty Jamaican Gal. These are the types, who fight with other girls, sometimes fight with men, who swear, who have no self respect, who have multiple baby fathers, who will say anything just to get what they want. You will know if you are presently dating a Dutty Jamaican Gal.
#3 The Bible believers
There are some Jamaican people who are very serious about God. Back in the day Jamaica used to be a very religious place. Now, those who are hard core Christians are considered out dated in a sense. A Jamaican woman, who loves God and leans on the lord for all situations, will have a lot to teach you about life and God. These types of Jamaican women tend to be more trust worthy because they often feel that for all that they do and do not do, they will be held accountable by the Almighty creator. These Jamaican women tend to be slow to be intimate, and believe in marriage and family. They also tend to read their bible at night and in the morning religiously. No pun intended.
#4 Your Dinning Etiquette
how to cook for a jamaicanI once went on a first date with a guy. Just the way he ate his food and decided that it was ok to leave rib sauce surrounding his mouth until he was completely finished his meal (with me sitting across the table) ….really pissed off, and turned me off. I knew that was going to be not only our first date, but our last. Uncleanliness especially while eating is something that many Jamaican people will not tolerate. Jamaican people have major cleaning “issues” for lack of a better word. We are not changing anytime soon.
Please when you dine with your Jamaican woman, be sure your fingers and your face are clean. Eat and then clean your mouth and fingers as needed. That is how we do it, and that is exactly what we expect. Also if your Jamaican woman has something on her face while she is eating, it is your responsibility as her King in Jamaican Culture for you to tell her….we take offense if you don’t do it….Just so you know.

#5 Her Kissing Vows – Fresh Breath! – Jamaican people have a big jamaican love“thing” about fresh breath. Be sure when you try to kiss your Jamaican, your breath is very fresh. Use tooth paste to brush your teeth, and chew some gum just before or spray some breath spray.
Daily Hygiene – Jamaicans take proper daily hygiene practices very seriously. If a Jamaican man or a Jamaican woman suspects that you do not practice proper hygiene, such as daily showering etc. trust me Nelly…they will not kiss you! So, be sure you shower every day, wear deodorant and do your laundry regularly. No weird gross odors emanating from your body.
Monogamy – Jamaicans don’t like to think for one second you are “sharing your mouth” with others, and that now you are attempting to “swap” those germs with them through a kiss? No! So, demonstrate that you are the monogamous type, by dating only them if you want a Jamaican to kiss you. Read the rest of “Jamaican women: 21 things about dating a Jamaican woman”

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  1. How to Cook Jamaican Patty from scratch
  2. How to Keep a Jamaican Woman Happy for real
  3. How to make Jamaican style Potato Salad at home
  4. How to get a Jamaican Girl to Marry You (you will enjoy reading this)
  5. 8 tips to kiss a Jamaican man or woman
  6. How to cook Hot Jamaican Cornmeal Porridge for Breakfast or Dinner
  7. How to cook for a Jamaican man some advice to make him happy
  8. Jamaican Language Translations for beginners

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Jamaican Dating Personals

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Jamaicans Dating white women & White men

Jamaicans are dating white men, and dating White women in large numbers. I think its beautiful! Our planet needs more inter-culture mingling. It calms ignorance, and lessens the possibility for hatred, prejudice and Racism.

Jamaican men & white women dating

A lot of Jamaican men are dating white women. I think they look beautiful as a couple and compliment eachother. People are vacationing more than ever now…so lots of white women and Jamaican men are having the opportunity to meet…

Why do Jamaican men date White Women!

Some People ask me, Why do Jamaican men date White Women?
Jamaican men date white women, because they find them attractive, fun to hang out with, and they like the chemistry that they have with white women. Thats it! Besides its not bodys’ business who are person is dating especially if you don’t know them.

Jamaican women & white men dating

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Lots of Jamaican Women are dating White men also. It works both ways. Some say there are 2 main reasons for this.
#1 Jamaican Black men are not really dating Jamaican black women any more, so there are a lot of Single Jamaican Black women living in Jamaica, and in the West.
#2 A lot of White men are very attracted to Jamaican women, so they fall in love.

White men are nice to Jamaican women
white men are very affecitone towards Jamaican Women
White men appreciate the curves and shape of the Jamaican Woman
White men are Physically and emotionally gentle and King to Jamaican Black Women

I love Jamaican men…

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Perhaps you are a white woman who has thought to yourself, “I love Jamaican men,” where can I find one to date? Well, you can post a personals ad on “Jamaican Love.” A lot of Black Jamaican men want to meet and marry white women. Place my personals ad on Jamaicanlove.org now

Do Jamaican men like american women?

Yes Jamaican men do like American women very much! Jamaican men like women of all nationalities, black american women, white american women, Asian American Women. The reason is that, in Jamaica a lot of the men see a “foreign woman as being “special” so, they dream of dating and settling down with an American woman. Also in Jamaica we have people who are Jamaican of various nations. Join Jamaicanlove.org and share your personals ad with Jamaican men living in Jamaica, and the US.

Meet Jamaican Singles UK, Canada, US?

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Meet Jamaican men, or meet Jamaican women. If you are a Jamaican, create your sinlge ad to meet a white woman or a white man today.

Post your Personals Ad on Jamaican Love!

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How to Get a Jamaican Girl to Marry you!



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Give thanks and praises to the Most High.

This blog post was requested. So, I figured why not…sounds like fun. Here are 10 Tips to get a Jamaican Girl to Marry you!

#1 Potential Prospects?

If you want a Jamaican Girl to Marry You, you will have to ask her if any other men have asked for her hand in marriage in the last 30 days…in the last year? WE are hoping the answer is no.

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#2 Show her you clean up after your self

In Jamaican Culture both the men and the women are taught how to be equally clean. Men learn when they are little boys how to do the dishes, do the laundry and sweep and wash the floors. Show your Jamaican lady, that you know how to contribute…and keep a household clean.

#3 Shower Daily…

I know it sounds obvious to some…but hygiene is a VERY important part of Jamaican Culture. If you do not shower daily…your Jamaican woman may be talking badly behind your back about how she could never be with you because you are “Dutty!” Be sure to shower, brush your teeth and wear deodorant daily…I’m just saying.

#4 Never say no…

Never say “no” when she asks you for money…Jamaican women need money to do things like hair, nails, buy groceries, send money to family back home, etc. She may be in between Jobs, or looking after a family member back home. If your Jamaican woman asks you to help her out financially, never say no, simply say “I don’t have it right now.” Then, tell her when you can help her out…This is exactly how a Jamaican man treats a Jamaican woman, in this situation.

#5 Don’t try to change her….just accept her the way she is.

In Jamaican culture we don’t try to Change someone unless their behavior is extreme. Typically we accept people as they are and work around their idiosyncrasies.

#6 Give her space…

Jamaican women need their space…other wise we get Cranky. If you are in the same home, and she pulls away to go and read, or sit on the porch, don’t follow her. Just allow her 1- 2 hours to come around. Jamaican people are wired like this…its quite normal for us, to be a little distant in our relationships, at times.

#7 Engagement Ring Shopping…let her pick!

Want to get a Jamaican Girl to Marry you? Why not take her shopping just to “try on” some engagement Rings….Just tell her you want to do it for fun…. This is a great way to find out her ring size, and let her choose what style of ring she likes. Smart huh?

#8 Show your Strength & Independence

Make sure you have your sh..tuff.. together…Jamaican women like a man that is strong and independent. The reason is many Jamaican women have to carry the load of family, children, Sisters children etc. on their backs. Show your Jamaican Empress, that you have her back, because you have yourself together, and are not going to put another load on her back.

#9 A simple Touch…goes a long way

Hold her hand when the two of you are alone. I know it sounds silly, but Jamaicans are not well known for showing affection. Show your Jamaican Woman that you care for her, simply by holding her jamaican woman marry white manhand when you two are alone. This will help her to think of you as someone who is gentle, and someone who cares, and someone who is worthy of Marriage.

#10 Special Proposal Day…Somewhere new…

jamaican woman white man3On Proposal Day…take her somewhere you have never taken her before…so she doesnt expect anything…then when you are feeling good and ready…take out the engagement ring she said she liked…and ask her…”will you marry me?”

Jamaican women are very faithful, very strong, and will do anything to support and uplift their man. I hope these tips work.
Thanks for reading. Blessed. Jah.


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8 Reasons Jamaican Women love White men



Ok before you read this I just want you to know none of this is meant to be offensive. I also want you to know I am a BIG, I mean BIG advocate for any black woman to date and marry a white man. So, if I say something ignorant it’s really out of love.

White guys make Jamaican women feel special

White guys like taking Jamaican women out for dinner, buying usjamaican dating little presents for our birthday and anniversaries, kissing us for no reason. Complimenting us out of the blue…White men make Jamaican women feel special. Yay white guys!

White men, are fun to be with intimately

White guys like doing things in the bedroom that are fun and different. Black Jamaican women like this because, it feels good to experiment, and not feel afraid. Plus black women know a white man will not judge us for being sexually experimental.

White guys love holding hands

White guys like holding hands. My white boyfriends seem to love holding hands everywhere we go. I like it because it makes me feel special and beautiful. It also lets me know that he wants to tell the world, “this is my lady.” Aw how cute! By the way a little off topic. I love seeing a white guy and black woman couple. I think they just look so right somehow…maybe its just me.

White men like making plans for the future

White men when in a Relationship with a black Jamaican women like to …
Get married to her…
Move in together…
Have Children…
Go away on Vacation…
When a white man loves a black Jamaican woman, many times, he will make commitments, that show he intends to be in the relationship long-term. Black women like this…a lot.

White men sees “the Queen” in the Jamaican woman

  • White men like a Jamaican woman’s’ dark skin complexionrasta empress
  • White men think Jamaican women are strong and speak what they feel
  • White men think Jamaican women are sexy…

White men see the true beauty and “Royal” spirit of black Jamaican women, and that is priceless, to us!

White men are not afraid of “natural hair”

black woman white manSince I locked my hair I get approached way more by white men than I do black men. They talk to me for no reason at all sometimes. Just to say hi, or ask me how I am doing, or whatever is on their mind. I think my dreadlocks, somehow “push” black men away, because black men don’t want to see a black woman in dreadlocks. But white men are not afraid of my black natural hair. In fact, they embrace and encourage it. That is so cool.

White guys like making love

Black Jamaican women also like white guys cause they know how to make love to Jamaican women, slowly and passionately. Black women like this cause it makes us feel special and loved.

White Guys kiss so gentle

jamaican-woman-marry-a-white-manWhen I first started dating white guys, it was the kiss that got me! It was so soft and so gentle. Wow. So for me…I like the way that White guys kiss. I am sure other Jamaican women like this too.
Blessed. Thanks for reading.

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How to Keep a Jamaican Woman Happy

tumblr_m6zgog0bes1rumewfo1_500Hi guys I am so happy you have come to read my blog post “How to Make a Jamaican woman happy.” I wrote this blog post for men who may be dating or living with a Jamaican woman, but who really have little experience with the culture. Here is a guideline to help you get a long with your Jamaican woman and to make her happy. Blessed.

 

Money to Spend!

Jamaican people in general love to have money to spend. Jamaicans like to wear the latest fashions and they like to look and smell good. If you are dating a Jamaican woman, make sure she has lots of money to spend. You could encourage her to get a great paying Job, or to have her own business, or just give her some of your own cash. We take that too. LoL.

Let her vent!

As a Jamaican woman myself, I can tell you, Jamaican women like to vent! Why not. Many people like to dump things on our heads as if we have no feelings. Our men are the one expected to be the “listening ear” for all our problems. Just agree with every thing she says and she will calm down. LOL. It works…My white boyfriend used to do this for me all the time. So, sweet.

Do not tell a Jamaican woman what to do!

This is probably #1. Do not tell your Jamaican woman what to do! We do not appreciate this. A Jamaican woman is a natural Warrior and Queen, in her mind there is no one more intelligent, and more special than her. If you want to make her happy keep this in mind. Even if this is not your opinion of her. Just the fact that we are raised to think that way means, this type of thinking is not going anywhere soon.

Do not “touch” her stuff!

I included this for those who may have a Jamaican woman in their life but maybe the relationship is not dating, maybe its an in-law. Whatever you do…whoever you are….Do not touch her stuff!…If you do, you will become her instant enemy forever! All Jamaicans are raised the same way, so we all know… “not to touch other people’s things.”

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Allow her Jamaican Moments

Jamaican women are gonna have Jamaican moments. She is going to do things you do not understand. Say things you just do not get, and have a way of thinking that may seem totally Illogical – to you! Allow your Jamaican woman these moments. If she laughs about it, laugh with her, if she seems concerned, create a look of concern on your face too…you get it!!!!

Tell her when she is wrong

Here is where the script gets flipped just a little bit. There comes a point in a relationship with a Jamaican woman, where you must tell her the truth – all truths. You see…we Jamaicans believe that if someone loves us, they will always tell us the truth. Even if it means telling her she is wrong about something. If you do have to tell the Jamaican woman in your life that she is wrong about something I have 2 tips, do it in private, and do it gently, and make sure you have spent some quality time together so she knows it is coming from a place of love and not as an “attack”!  Tell her she is wrong, but at the right point, in the right place, and from your heart.

Give her some great loving!

Oddly enough because of our Warrior and Queen mentality, a Jamaican woman can go a long time without some loving, but if she does go a long time without it…it better be good when she gets it….otherwise, you will probably hear about it. Jamaican women are not that forward about their sexual feelings, with words or gestures – this is not our culture. What ever our sexual feelings and desires are, we reserve for the right time and the right person. We Jamaican women expect  the loving that we get to be “top-notch” or not at all.

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She needs to eat ….Jamaican Food!

Jamaican people need Jamaican food. It’s just how it is. Jamaican food goes with the Jamaican stomach. When we do not get our own Jamaican food, when we crave it, this can put us (Jamaicans) in a “bad mood.” Jamaican food fills a need that no other food can! We Jamaican warriors, Kings and Queens, need to have Jamaican food. It puts us in a good mood and makes us feel content.

Jamaican woman’s hair and nails…

Omg. This is so important. A Jamaican woman’s hair and nails is the most important thing to her regarding her appearance, (if she is age 20-45) She needs to have her hair and nails done! Otherwise she may get cranky. I know this is true for me. When my hair and nails are done, I feel like a Million dollars, and my whole personality changes. When my hair and nails are not done, I don’t care so much to go out, and I am less happy.

Quiet Time Alone, own space

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I have come to realize that Americans and Jamaicans are different. I as a Jamaican woman, need my quiet time, and I need it alone. This was common in my household growing up, so I assumed everybody lived like this – but we are not! The Jamaican heart and mind is different. We Jamaican women need time alone…to reflect, to read our bible, to relax…we don’t like to talk all the time. So give her space, to just do her own thing, have her alone time. She will let you know when she is recharged and ready to talk/socialize again.

Listen to your Jamaican womans heart!

The truth is Jamaican women are tough on the outside but very soft on the inside. We sometimes yell, and complain, because we simply want our feelings and emotions to be heard. Take the time out to listen to your Jamaican woman, and you will see just how quickly, she starts doing things in your favor. Trust me…it works! Check these beautiful Reasons Jamaican men Love White women

I will try to update this list in the future….because there is a lot of ways to make a Jamaican woman happy. Blessed.


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