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Jamaican Women: 21 things about dating a Jamaican woman

Ok guys so my new ebook “Jamaican Women” 21 things about dating a Jamaican woman. is out now. Try the first bit.

 

Jamaican Women
21 things about dating a Jamaican woman

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By
Empress Yuajah

This book is way over due. I am sorry to the people who searched for it and could not find it. So many things were happening at the time. I apologize. Please enjoy this eBook about Jamaican women. Check out some of my other work on Rasta Way of Life and Jamaican Culture.

eBooks by Empress Yuajah

1. “Rasta way of life” – Rastafari Livity Book
2. “White Rastafarianism” – How to become a white Rasta
3. “10 Jamaica vacation warnings” – The truth about the “other side” of Jamaica. A quick FYI foreigners visit Jamaica.
4. “Jamaican men: 21 things about dating Jamaican men” – Learn the truth about dating a Jamaican man living in Jamaica

Understanding Jamaican women and Culture

jamaican womanA Jamaican woman is different than any other woman. We have our minds set! We know what we want and what we don’t want! Jamaicans in general, don’t really believe in pretending to make others happy. We are not raised like that. Some find our way of living and thinking “harsh” but the truth is a Jamaican woman’s heart is soft as a Kitten…but wait, you will only see that side, once she has decided and realized on her own in her own time, that she does indeed love you. Until then things may be a little rough and tough.
A Jamaican woman’s mind set
You are probably a man who is not Jamaican. But, perhaps you have a crush on a Jamaican woman, or perhaps you are dating a Jamaican woman and want to learn a little bit more about her mind set and her way of life. I will do the best I can to explain things to you so that you close this book feeling as if you have just been the mind of a Jamaican woman. I have written for you “Jamaican Women: 21 things about dating a Jamaican woman.” Enjoy!
#1 She wears the pants
Jamaican women are taught from they are very young, to stand strong and don’t let anybody or anything defeat them in life. In most Jamaican households the woman wears the pants. This position is passed down from generation to generation, and from household to household. This ultimately means that the woman has the final say. The head woman is the most vocal, and the one who bosses everybody else around including children and husband. Just so you know. Jamaican women tend to be loud and aggressive when it comes to ruling and taking care of their household and their family. Anything less is seen as weak.
#2 The “Dutty” Jamaican gal
In Jamaican culture a woman who can physically fight and win, is seen as sort of a heroin, strong, and not weak. In Jamaican culture, coming to blows is normal just so you know. These types of Jamaican women are often known as dirty Jamaican Gal. These are the types, who fight with other girls, sometimes fight with men, who swear, who have no self respect, who have multiple baby fathers, who will say anything just to get what they want. You will know if you are presently dating a Dutty Jamaican Gal.
#3 The Bible believers
There are some Jamaican people who are very serious about God. Back in the day Jamaica used to be a very religious place. Now, those who are hard core Christians are considered out dated in a sense. A Jamaican woman, who loves God and leans on the lord for all situations, will have a lot to teach you about life and God. These types of Jamaican women tend to be more trust worthy because they often feel that for all that they do and do not do, they will be held accountable by the Almighty creator. These Jamaican women tend to be slow to be intimate, and believe in marriage and family. They also tend to read their bible at night and in the morning religiously. No pun intended.
#4 Your Dinning Etiquette
how to cook for a jamaicanI once went on a first date with a guy. Just the way he ate his food and decided that it was ok to leave rib sauce surrounding his mouth until he was completely finished his meal (with me sitting across the table) ….really pissed off, and turned me off. I knew that was going to be not only our first date, but our last. Uncleanliness especially while eating is something that many Jamaican people will not tolerate. Jamaican people have major cleaning “issues” for lack of a better word. We are not changing anytime soon.
Please when you dine with your Jamaican woman, be sure your fingers and your face are clean. Eat and then clean your mouth and fingers as needed. That is how we do it, and that is exactly what we expect. Also if your Jamaican woman has something on her face while she is eating, it is your responsibility as her King in Jamaican Culture for you to tell her….we take offense if you don’t do it….Just so you know.

#5 Her Kissing Vows – Fresh Breath! – Jamaican people have a big jamaican love“thing” about fresh breath. Be sure when you try to kiss your Jamaican, your breath is very fresh. Use tooth paste to brush your teeth, and chew some gum just before or spray some breath spray.
Daily Hygiene – Jamaicans take proper daily hygiene practices very seriously. If a Jamaican man or a Jamaican woman suspects that you do not practice proper hygiene, such as daily showering etc. trust me Nelly…they will not kiss you! So, be sure you shower every day, wear deodorant and do your laundry regularly. No weird gross odors emanating from your body.
Monogamy – Jamaicans don’t like to think for one second you are “sharing your mouth” with others, and that now you are attempting to “swap” those germs with them through a kiss? No! So, demonstrate that you are the monogamous type, by dating only them if you want a Jamaican to kiss you. Read the rest of “Jamaican women: 21 things about dating a Jamaican woman”

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  1. How to Cook Jamaican Patty from scratch
  2. How to Keep a Jamaican Woman Happy for real
  3. How to make Jamaican style Potato Salad at home
  4. How to get a Jamaican Girl to Marry You (you will enjoy reading this)
  5. 8 tips to kiss a Jamaican man or woman
  6. How to cook Hot Jamaican Cornmeal Porridge for Breakfast or Dinner
  7. How to cook for a Jamaican man some advice to make him happy
  8. Jamaican Language Translations for beginners

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21 things about dating a Jamaican man ebook

 

  • 3.0 out of 5 stars short n sweet Jan. 27 2014 – Book was too short…even for $5, but a nice little analogy. I think it’s fairly accurate and enlightening, but just an opinion.
  • 4.0 out of 5 stars nice to know Nov. 5 2014 – I really enjoyed this book. I must say that my man is the most wonderful he treats me like a queen. I do keep the house clean and he dose the cooking ending with this # one love
  • 4.0 out of 5 stars 21 things about a jamaican man. June 14 2014 – i have found thid book very enlightening. and i have found several things with my jamaican man. this book was delivered to my kindle within seconds. thanks.

Jamaican men – How to cook for a Jamaican manJamaican men characteristics

  1. black man white womanJunk in the Trunk! –  Not all… but some Jamaican men like a woman with a little bit of a behind…you know “junk in the trunk!” as it is known. So, if you have a pronounced but, just know Jamaican men find it sexy…Im just saying.
  2. A Woman who can Cook Jamaican food – Jamaican men 20130715-jerk-chicken-final-food-lab-38love to eat Jamaican food. Jamaican men grow up eating these hearty heavy and delicious meals. When he becomes a grown man his body still craves this food. A Jamaican man appreciates it when his woman knows how to cook delicious Jamaican food.
  3. A woman who smells “fresh & Clean” – In Jamaican culture cleanliness is very important. A woman who showers daily, and wears a nice feminine perfume is admired by a lot of Jamaican men. So, brush your teeth regularly, wear deodorant, and be sure to shower as needed, Jamaican men like a woman who keeps her body smelling clean and fresh.
  4. A woman who is mentally strong – Jamaican men like a woman who is mentally strong. Weakness is frowned upon in Jamaican Culture, so be sure to show that you don’t crack under any type of pressure.
  5. A woman who shares – Sharing is such a big part of Jamaican Culture, and a part that many people are unaware of. Jamaican people are very kind. Many Jamaicans will give you the shirt off their back. A woman who shares may be seen as embracing one of the basic principles of Jamaican Culture. If you share, you make your Jamaican man feel more comfortable with you.
  6. A Woman who cares and listens – listening to the feelings of your Jamaican guy is another quality Jamaican men like in a woman. Jamaican men are not just sex objects, or “men” they are also people. A woman who listens and who cares, and is willing to be a pillar of support, is an important to a Jamaican man.
  7. A woman who can keep house – If you are a clean freak, that’s great! If not become one. Jamaican men like a woman who he knows can keep the house clean and in order. Many Jamaican men themselves are raised to do the same, so his standards for house order, will be high. If you don’t know how to do this, just go around people who do, and in time you will learn how to keep house just as well.
  8. A Woman who speaks her mind – Keeping your opinion to your self is almost unheard of in Jamaican Culture. So, don’t think that by not saying whats on your mind, is helping your relationship. Jamaicans just don’t believe in that. A woman who speaks her mind is respected, and strong. So don’t be afraid to speak your mind with your Jamaican man.
  9. A Woman who loves his Mother  – It’s very simple, if you love your Mother, love his Mother too. Many Jamaican men have very close relationships with their Moms. So, if he loves her, just love her too!
  10. A Woman who use “clean” language –  Jamaican men do not like to hear their lady using foul language. It looks bad and shows a lack of self-control. In Jamaican Culture, many Jamaican swear only when they are severely pissed. So, just keep this in mind.
  11. A Woman who knows how to Dance – A Jamaican man will not take jamaican woman dancingyou to the club with him if you cannot dance. So, if you know how to dance, great…your Jamaican man will appreciate this. If not, just “rock” which means to sway back and forth. If you can’t “rock” consider staying home. Jamaicans take dancing and music very seriously…Im just saying.

Bonus
Long Hair –  Jamaican men like a woman who is feminine in appearance. Whats more feminine than long hair on a female. So, start growing your hair long…your Jamaican guy will adore it.

Love. King Selassie I.

Read 21 Things about dating a Jamaican man, read what Jamaican men like in a woman

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dating a Jamaican man (the book

 

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How to Keep a Jamaican Woman Happy

tumblr_m6zgog0bes1rumewfo1_500Hi guys I am so happy you have come to read my blog post “How to Make a Jamaican woman happy.” I wrote this blog post for men who may be dating or living with a Jamaican woman, but who really have little experience with the culture. Here is a guideline to help you get a long with your Jamaican woman and to make her happy. Blessed.

 

Money to Spend!

Jamaican people in general love to have money to spend. Jamaicans like to wear the latest fashions and they like to look and smell good. If you are dating a Jamaican woman, make sure she has lots of money to spend. You could encourage her to get a great paying Job, or to have her own business, or just give her some of your own cash. We take that too. LoL.

Let her vent!

As a Jamaican woman myself, I can tell you, Jamaican women like to vent! Why not. Many people like to dump things on our heads as if we have no feelings. Our men are the one expected to be the “listening ear” for all our problems. Just agree with every thing she says and she will calm down. LOL. It works…My white boyfriend used to do this for me all the time. So, sweet.

Do not tell a Jamaican woman what to do!

This is probably #1. Do not tell your Jamaican woman what to do! We do not appreciate this. A Jamaican woman is a natural Warrior and Queen, in her mind there is no one more intelligent, and more special than her. If you want to make her happy keep this in mind. Even if this is not your opinion of her. Just the fact that we are raised to think that way means, this type of thinking is not going anywhere soon.

Do not “touch” her stuff!

I included this for those who may have a Jamaican woman in their life but maybe the relationship is not dating, maybe its an in-law. Whatever you do…whoever you are….Do not touch her stuff!…If you do, you will become her instant enemy forever! All Jamaicans are raised the same way, so we all know… “not to touch other people’s things.”

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Allow her Jamaican Moments

Jamaican women are gonna have Jamaican moments. She is going to do things you do not understand. Say things you just do not get, and have a way of thinking that may seem totally Illogical – to you! Allow your Jamaican woman these moments. If she laughs about it, laugh with her, if she seems concerned, create a look of concern on your face too…you get it!!!!

Tell her when she is wrong

Here is where the script gets flipped just a little bit. There comes a point in a relationship with a Jamaican woman, where you must tell her the truth – all truths. You see…we Jamaicans believe that if someone loves us, they will always tell us the truth. Even if it means telling her she is wrong about something. If you do have to tell the Jamaican woman in your life that she is wrong about something I have 2 tips, do it in private, and do it gently, and make sure you have spent some quality time together so she knows it is coming from a place of love and not as an “attack”!  Tell her she is wrong, but at the right point, in the right place, and from your heart.

Give her some great loving!

Oddly enough because of our Warrior and Queen mentality, a Jamaican woman can go a long time without some loving, but if she does go a long time without it…it better be good when she gets it….otherwise, you will probably hear about it. Jamaican women are not that forward about their sexual feelings, with words or gestures – this is not our culture. What ever our sexual feelings and desires are, we reserve for the right time and the right person. We Jamaican women expect  the loving that we get to be “top-notch” or not at all.

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She needs to eat ….Jamaican Food!

Jamaican people need Jamaican food. It’s just how it is. Jamaican food goes with the Jamaican stomach. When we do not get our own Jamaican food, when we crave it, this can put us (Jamaicans) in a “bad mood.” Jamaican food fills a need that no other food can! We Jamaican warriors, Kings and Queens, need to have Jamaican food. It puts us in a good mood and makes us feel content.

Jamaican woman’s hair and nails…

Omg. This is so important. A Jamaican woman’s hair and nails is the most important thing to her regarding her appearance, (if she is age 20-45) She needs to have her hair and nails done! Otherwise she may get cranky. I know this is true for me. When my hair and nails are done, I feel like a Million dollars, and my whole personality changes. When my hair and nails are not done, I don’t care so much to go out, and I am less happy.

Quiet Time Alone, own space

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I have come to realize that Americans and Jamaicans are different. I as a Jamaican woman, need my quiet time, and I need it alone. This was common in my household growing up, so I assumed everybody lived like this – but we are not! The Jamaican heart and mind is different. We Jamaican women need time alone…to reflect, to read our bible, to relax…we don’t like to talk all the time. So give her space, to just do her own thing, have her alone time. She will let you know when she is recharged and ready to talk/socialize again.

Listen to your Jamaican womans heart!

The truth is Jamaican women are tough on the outside but very soft on the inside. We sometimes yell, and complain, because we simply want our feelings and emotions to be heard. Take the time out to listen to your Jamaican woman, and you will see just how quickly, she starts doing things in your favor. Trust me…it works! Check these beautiful Reasons Jamaican men Love White women

I will try to update this list in the future….because there is a lot of ways to make a Jamaican woman happy. Blessed.


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