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Jamaican men – Meet Mr. Bumpy!

 

b1 b2hello my nick name is Bumpy. They call me this in Jamaica, my real name is Lanceford. I often dress very stylish, in jeans and a men’s  dress shirt and I am a young looking 55 year old male. I work doing motorcycle taxi in Jamaica in the little London in the westmoreland area. I have two grown sons ages 33 and 32. I own my own home, and have a brand new puppy named corporal.



I love life, love to laugh and enjoy spending time with that special lady. I am seeking a foreign woman between the age of 36 – 45 of any nationality for love, friendship, laughter and relationship. I love to talk about anything and everything, and I am hoping to find my soul-mate. My zodiac sign is Gemini and I am easy to talk to. I have a cell phone you can call if you are a foreign woman and would like us to get to know each other. Call 876 557 6527 Hope to talk to you soon.
Bumpy.

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Jamaicans Dating white women & White men

Jamaicans are dating white men, and dating White women in large numbers. I think its beautiful! Our planet needs more inter-culture mingling. It calms ignorance, and lessens the possibility for hatred, prejudice and Racism.

Jamaican men & white women dating

A lot of Jamaican men are dating white women. I think they look beautiful as a couple and compliment eachother. People are vacationing more than ever now…so lots of white women and Jamaican men are having the opportunity to meet…

Why do Jamaican men date White Women!

Some People ask me, Why do Jamaican men date White Women?
Jamaican men date white women, because they find them attractive, fun to hang out with, and they like the chemistry that they have with white women. Thats it! Besides its not bodys’ business who are person is dating especially if you don’t know them.

Jamaican women & white men dating

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Lots of Jamaican Women are dating White men also. It works both ways. Some say there are 2 main reasons for this.
#1 Jamaican Black men are not really dating Jamaican black women any more, so there are a lot of Single Jamaican Black women living in Jamaica, and in the West.
#2 A lot of White men are very attracted to Jamaican women, so they fall in love.

White men are nice to Jamaican women
white men are very affecitone towards Jamaican Women
White men appreciate the curves and shape of the Jamaican Woman
White men are Physically and emotionally gentle and King to Jamaican Black Women

I love Jamaican men…

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Perhaps you are a white woman who has thought to yourself, “I love Jamaican men,” where can I find one to date? Well, you can post a personals ad on “Jamaican Love.” A lot of Black Jamaican men want to meet and marry white women. Place my personals ad on Jamaicanlove.org now

Do Jamaican men like american women?

Yes Jamaican men do like American women very much! Jamaican men like women of all nationalities, black american women, white american women, Asian American Women. The reason is that, in Jamaica a lot of the men see a “foreign woman as being “special” so, they dream of dating and settling down with an American woman. Also in Jamaica we have people who are Jamaican of various nations. Join Jamaicanlove.org and share your personals ad with Jamaican men living in Jamaica, and the US.

Meet Jamaican Singles UK, Canada, US?

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Foreign Women and the Jamaican man (part 4)

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  2. How to Keep a Jamaican Woman Happy for real
  3. How to make Jamaican style Potato Salad at home
  4. How to get a Jamaican Girl to Marry You (you will enjoy reading this)
  5. 8 tips to kiss a Jamaican man or woman
  6. How to cook Hot Jamaican Cornmeal Porridge for Breakfast or Dinner
  7. How to cook for a Jamaican man some advice to make him happy
  8. Jamaican Language Translations for beginners

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Foreign Women & the Jamaican Man

Do Jamaican men use White women?

The answer to this question is “Yes! Some Jamaican men do use some white women.” However this is more prevalent in Jamaica. Not all Jamaican men use every white woman. Don’t misunderstand. There are Jamaican men, and white women, who are involved in very loving, healthy long-term, and happy relationships. Then there are those whose relationships are based on other things.

White women are known in Jamaica for giving the men money….these are just some ideas why they may be doing it.
I believe there are many ways to look at this.

  • Perhaps some white women are a little more generous with money while on vacation than women of other cultural backgrounds and therefore have built up a reputation, in Jamaica of being “easy to get money from.”
  • Perhaps some white women who give Jamaican men money are just trying to be helpful. They understand that there aren’t many jobs in Jamaica.
  • Perhaps some white women want a Jamaican man so badly that they are willing to give him money to have him stick around. I empathize with this because in western society, I know it can be somewhat difficult just to strike up a conversation with someone, whereas when you go to Jamaica, you can easily have 5 beautiful men by your side, as a woman from abroad, at any given time.
  • Perhaps some white women who visit Jamaica have the money and don’t mind sharing their wealth with their Jamaican Man.

If White women are giving Jamaican men money, it is not my affair; If they are happy together and enjoying life, then they are just a like any other happy couple to me.
Do Jamaican Men use Black Women too?

Do Jamaican men use Black Women too? The answer is yes of course they do! If a Jamaican man wants to, “he can charm the birds out of the trees.” Jamaican men using women does not only apply to white women.

How women from abroad are seen by men in Jamaica

As money Bags…
Some Jamaicans see women from abroad as having a ton of money. This is probably due to the fact that when many women from Abroad visit Jamaica they are spending money that has been saved for the trip to Jamaica. So maybe foreign women are seen as money bags just because they have a lot of money to spend when on vacation.

Seen As something Exotic…
Some Jamaican men living  in Jamaica see foreign women as something exotic. I guess it makes sense. Just the same as when an English man visits the United States, many women will find his accent sexy. Women from abroad have a different way of thinking. Perhaps expressing herself and with a foreign accent; may be quite sexually appealing, to a Jamaican man.

As Sex Crazed!
Again Sex tourism is a Reality in Jamaica. Many women visit Jamaica to have sex with Jamaican men, can you blame them? So, many of the men in Jamaica just assume that many foreign women are “easy to get into bed” because so many of them who visit Jamaica are easy to get into bed! If you are a foreign woman who visits Jamaica not looking for sex, you will soon become one before your trip has ended, believe me.

As Special…
I told one guy I was getting to know, when I was down in Jamaica, that he only wanted to talk to me because I was different from him. He immediately corrected me by saying, “no special.” Hey, if Jamaican men want to call me “special”, I’ll take it!

White Women Worshiped?
I am told that white women from abroad are worshiped by the black men in Jamaica. I could see how it could be true. Living in North America, I do come across a lot of Jamaican black men, involved in long term relationships with White women.


 

More Jamaican Culture Blog Posts you might Like

  1. How to Cook Jamaican Patty from scratch
  2. How to Keep a Jamaican Woman Happy for real
  3. How to make Jamaican style Potato Salad at home
  4. How to get a Jamaican Girl to Marry You (you will enjoy reading this)
  5. 8 tips to kiss a Jamaican man or woman
  6. How to cook Hot Jamaican Cornmeal Porridge for Breakfast or Dinner
  7. How to cook for a Jamaican man some advice to make him happy
  8. Jamaican Language Translations for beginners

How to Keep a Jamaican Woman Happy

tumblr_m6zgog0bes1rumewfo1_500Hi guys I am so happy you have come to read my blog post “How to Make a Jamaican woman happy.” I wrote this blog post for men who may be dating or living with a Jamaican woman, but who really have little experience with the culture. Here is a guideline to help you get a long with your Jamaican woman and to make her happy. Blessed.

 

Money to Spend!

Jamaican people in general love to have money to spend. Jamaicans like to wear the latest fashions and they like to look and smell good. If you are dating a Jamaican woman, make sure she has lots of money to spend. You could encourage her to get a great paying Job, or to have her own business, or just give her some of your own cash. We take that too. LoL.

Let her vent!

As a Jamaican woman myself, I can tell you, Jamaican women like to vent! Why not. Many people like to dump things on our heads as if we have no feelings. Our men are the one expected to be the “listening ear” for all our problems. Just agree with every thing she says and she will calm down. LOL. It works…My white boyfriend used to do this for me all the time. So, sweet.

Do not tell a Jamaican woman what to do!

This is probably #1. Do not tell your Jamaican woman what to do! We do not appreciate this. A Jamaican woman is a natural Warrior and Queen, in her mind there is no one more intelligent, and more special than her. If you want to make her happy keep this in mind. Even if this is not your opinion of her. Just the fact that we are raised to think that way means, this type of thinking is not going anywhere soon.

Do not “touch” her stuff!

I included this for those who may have a Jamaican woman in their life but maybe the relationship is not dating, maybe its an in-law. Whatever you do…whoever you are….Do not touch her stuff!…If you do, you will become her instant enemy forever! All Jamaicans are raised the same way, so we all know… “not to touch other people’s things.”

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Allow her Jamaican Moments

Jamaican women are gonna have Jamaican moments. She is going to do things you do not understand. Say things you just do not get, and have a way of thinking that may seem totally Illogical – to you! Allow your Jamaican woman these moments. If she laughs about it, laugh with her, if she seems concerned, create a look of concern on your face too…you get it!!!!

Tell her when she is wrong

Here is where the script gets flipped just a little bit. There comes a point in a relationship with a Jamaican woman, where you must tell her the truth – all truths. You see…we Jamaicans believe that if someone loves us, they will always tell us the truth. Even if it means telling her she is wrong about something. If you do have to tell the Jamaican woman in your life that she is wrong about something I have 2 tips, do it in private, and do it gently, and make sure you have spent some quality time together so she knows it is coming from a place of love and not as an “attack”!  Tell her she is wrong, but at the right point, in the right place, and from your heart.

Give her some great loving!

Oddly enough because of our Warrior and Queen mentality, a Jamaican woman can go a long time without some loving, but if she does go a long time without it…it better be good when she gets it….otherwise, you will probably hear about it. Jamaican women are not that forward about their sexual feelings, with words or gestures – this is not our culture. What ever our sexual feelings and desires are, we reserve for the right time and the right person. We Jamaican women expect  the loving that we get to be “top-notch” or not at all.

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She needs to eat ….Jamaican Food!

Jamaican people need Jamaican food. It’s just how it is. Jamaican food goes with the Jamaican stomach. When we do not get our own Jamaican food, when we crave it, this can put us (Jamaicans) in a “bad mood.” Jamaican food fills a need that no other food can! We Jamaican warriors, Kings and Queens, need to have Jamaican food. It puts us in a good mood and makes us feel content.

Jamaican woman’s hair and nails…

Omg. This is so important. A Jamaican woman’s hair and nails is the most important thing to her regarding her appearance, (if she is age 20-45) She needs to have her hair and nails done! Otherwise she may get cranky. I know this is true for me. When my hair and nails are done, I feel like a Million dollars, and my whole personality changes. When my hair and nails are not done, I don’t care so much to go out, and I am less happy.

Quiet Time Alone, own space

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I have come to realize that Americans and Jamaicans are different. I as a Jamaican woman, need my quiet time, and I need it alone. This was common in my household growing up, so I assumed everybody lived like this – but we are not! The Jamaican heart and mind is different. We Jamaican women need time alone…to reflect, to read our bible, to relax…we don’t like to talk all the time. So give her space, to just do her own thing, have her alone time. She will let you know when she is recharged and ready to talk/socialize again.

Listen to your Jamaican womans heart!

The truth is Jamaican women are tough on the outside but very soft on the inside. We sometimes yell, and complain, because we simply want our feelings and emotions to be heard. Take the time out to listen to your Jamaican woman, and you will see just how quickly, she starts doing things in your favor. Trust me…it works! Check these beautiful Reasons Jamaican men Love White women

I will try to update this list in the future….because there is a lot of ways to make a Jamaican woman happy. Blessed.


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8 tips on dating a Jamaican man



  1. Show Respect to for his MotherIn Jamaican Culture respect for the mans Mother is so important. Never be disrespectful, always say “hi,” when you enter her home and make sure to say “bye” when you are leaving. Be sure to buy her a card for her birthday and Mothers day, otherwise you will be considered “rude” and “disrespectful.” Just so you know. If you do these things, you will be praised, and ask about.
  2. Don’t share too much personal information right awaySome jamaican man white womanJamaican men have Negative motives for why they may want your personal information. Just take your time with your stats. If I were you I would just lie to him for the first 3 months, and see where the relationship is going first. I am talking about your real last name, date of birth, and your address. Just take your time. If you were meant to be together you will be together 6 months from now.
  3. Make sure he is sincere – A Jamaican man may take an interest in your for any number of reasons. Only time will tell if he is really interested in your or something you can provide for him. Just keep it in the back of your mind that he may not be sincere, and remember that some Jamaican men love like children…in the moment, loving who ever is around. Just so you know. Read how to become a rasta. 
  4. Give him his space! – This is very important in Jamaican Culture. If you do not give a Jamaican man his space, he can become irritable. You may find him swearing at you and not showing you love, pulling away rather than closer. He just needs his own space and time alone. Many Jamaican women are like this too. Its nothing personal.jamaican-men
  5. Always keep your body fresh & clean! – Wash your a*s please! Jamaican men do not tolerate “dirtyness.”I know certain cultures don’t take it so serious, but to a Jamaican man, cleanliness is well, as they say, “next to Godliness.” Make sure you shower everyday and wash those creases! Yes I said it…creases!
  6. Don’t take his sh*t! – Don’t take crap from him. In fact if your Jamaican man starts dishing out trash talk early, or physical abuse, leave him..! It’s a downward spiral from there…trust me!
  7. Don’t be baby mama #4 – Many women fall so head over heals in love with their Jamaican guy that they think they are somehow different from baby Mama number 3,2, and 1. They think they can change him…they think, I am better than they were…stop kidding your self. Take some time, if he is really meant to be your man, he will be there with our without you becoming baby mama Number 4.
  8. Don’t assume you are “special…” – Just because he has sex with you, introduces you to his Mom, and tells you how much he wants to be with you, don’t assume you are special. A lot of women who are unfamiliar with Jamaican Culture, assume that these things mean you are special. A Jamaican man knows what to say to women, They are blessed in this sense. Take time, test him, know for sure you are special on his list, by how he treats you, is he patient with you? Will he do anything you ask of him? Test him to know!


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