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Jamaican Women: 21 things about dating a Jamaican woman

Ok guys so my new ebook “Jamaican Women” 21 things about dating a Jamaican woman. is out now. Try the first bit.

 

Jamaican Women
21 things about dating a Jamaican woman

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By
Empress Yuajah

This book is way over due. I am sorry to the people who searched for it and could not find it. So many things were happening at the time. I apologize. Please enjoy this eBook about Jamaican women. Check out some of my other work on Rasta Way of Life and Jamaican Culture.

eBooks by Empress Yuajah

1. “Rasta way of life” – Rastafari Livity Book
2. “White Rastafarianism” – How to become a white Rasta
3. “10 Jamaica vacation warnings” – The truth about the “other side” of Jamaica. A quick FYI foreigners visit Jamaica.
4. “Jamaican men: 21 things about dating Jamaican men” – Learn the truth about dating a Jamaican man living in Jamaica

Understanding Jamaican women and Culture

jamaican womanA Jamaican woman is different than any other woman. We have our minds set! We know what we want and what we don’t want! Jamaicans in general, don’t really believe in pretending to make others happy. We are not raised like that. Some find our way of living and thinking “harsh” but the truth is a Jamaican woman’s heart is soft as a Kitten…but wait, you will only see that side, once she has decided and realized on her own in her own time, that she does indeed love you. Until then things may be a little rough and tough.
A Jamaican woman’s mind set
You are probably a man who is not Jamaican. But, perhaps you have a crush on a Jamaican woman, or perhaps you are dating a Jamaican woman and want to learn a little bit more about her mind set and her way of life. I will do the best I can to explain things to you so that you close this book feeling as if you have just been the mind of a Jamaican woman. I have written for you “Jamaican Women: 21 things about dating a Jamaican woman.” Enjoy!
#1 She wears the pants
Jamaican women are taught from they are very young, to stand strong and don’t let anybody or anything defeat them in life. In most Jamaican households the woman wears the pants. This position is passed down from generation to generation, and from household to household. This ultimately means that the woman has the final say. The head woman is the most vocal, and the one who bosses everybody else around including children and husband. Just so you know. Jamaican women tend to be loud and aggressive when it comes to ruling and taking care of their household and their family. Anything less is seen as weak.
#2 The “Dutty” Jamaican gal
In Jamaican culture a woman who can physically fight and win, is seen as sort of a heroin, strong, and not weak. In Jamaican culture, coming to blows is normal just so you know. These types of Jamaican women are often known as dirty Jamaican Gal. These are the types, who fight with other girls, sometimes fight with men, who swear, who have no self respect, who have multiple baby fathers, who will say anything just to get what they want. You will know if you are presently dating a Dutty Jamaican Gal.
#3 The Bible believers
There are some Jamaican people who are very serious about God. Back in the day Jamaica used to be a very religious place. Now, those who are hard core Christians are considered out dated in a sense. A Jamaican woman, who loves God and leans on the lord for all situations, will have a lot to teach you about life and God. These types of Jamaican women tend to be more trust worthy because they often feel that for all that they do and do not do, they will be held accountable by the Almighty creator. These Jamaican women tend to be slow to be intimate, and believe in marriage and family. They also tend to read their bible at night and in the morning religiously. No pun intended.
#4 Your Dinning Etiquette
how to cook for a jamaicanI once went on a first date with a guy. Just the way he ate his food and decided that it was ok to leave rib sauce surrounding his mouth until he was completely finished his meal (with me sitting across the table) ….really pissed off, and turned me off. I knew that was going to be not only our first date, but our last. Uncleanliness especially while eating is something that many Jamaican people will not tolerate. Jamaican people have major cleaning “issues” for lack of a better word. We are not changing anytime soon.
Please when you dine with your Jamaican woman, be sure your fingers and your face are clean. Eat and then clean your mouth and fingers as needed. That is how we do it, and that is exactly what we expect. Also if your Jamaican woman has something on her face while she is eating, it is your responsibility as her King in Jamaican Culture for you to tell her….we take offense if you don’t do it….Just so you know.

#5 Her Kissing Vows – Fresh Breath! – Jamaican people have a big jamaican love“thing” about fresh breath. Be sure when you try to kiss your Jamaican, your breath is very fresh. Use tooth paste to brush your teeth, and chew some gum just before or spray some breath spray.
Daily Hygiene – Jamaicans take proper daily hygiene practices very seriously. If a Jamaican man or a Jamaican woman suspects that you do not practice proper hygiene, such as daily showering etc. trust me Nelly…they will not kiss you! So, be sure you shower every day, wear deodorant and do your laundry regularly. No weird gross odors emanating from your body.
Monogamy – Jamaicans don’t like to think for one second you are “sharing your mouth” with others, and that now you are attempting to “swap” those germs with them through a kiss? No! So, demonstrate that you are the monogamous type, by dating only them if you want a Jamaican to kiss you. Read the rest of “Jamaican women: 21 things about dating a Jamaican woman”

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  1. How to Cook Jamaican Patty from scratch
  2. How to Keep a Jamaican Woman Happy for real
  3. How to make Jamaican style Potato Salad at home
  4. How to get a Jamaican Girl to Marry You (you will enjoy reading this)
  5. 8 tips to kiss a Jamaican man or woman
  6. How to cook Hot Jamaican Cornmeal Porridge for Breakfast or Dinner
  7. How to cook for a Jamaican man some advice to make him happy
  8. Jamaican Language Translations for beginners

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Scorpio Boyfriendd

Looking for information on the scorpio male? maybe you are looking for information on the scorpio personality? what ever the case this article talks about the scorpio male, how he thinks and scorpios in general. So lets get started.

Scorpio male, scorpio men, scorpio man, scorpio boyfriends

scorpios in general have a tendancy to be private, men tend to have little to say. For these reasons figuring out the scorpio male can be a real task. A scorpio man has deep feelings, more than the average man…what he tells you may sound like something he made up just to get your pants. The thing about the scorpio male is …most of the time they wont tell a person what they want to hear just to get what they want. The scorpio boyfriend is a little more caring about the feelings and emotions of others and particularly his girlfriend. If you are dating, or are interested in a scorpio male…let me be the first to tell you…likely, he is an absolute gem. Try to approach the relationship with a scorpio as if what he says is true…and see where it leads you. Who knows…could even be marriage. At the very worst..astrology promises a good “romp in the hay” (hee hee)

Scorpio personality, scorpio male personality, scorpio

The scorpio personality can be a real mystery. Afterall in astrology, this zodiac sign rules things such as “mystery, sex, taboo love play, and deep sexual passion, among other things.” Scorpios make it a point in life to be elusive. They will try to make you think something other than the truth sometimes. Usually when a scorpio does this, it is because they feel vulnerable…especially in love. They figure by not showing their true feelings they can find out how you really feel deep down inside first…then show you how they really feel. To the scorpio personality, love is a very important, ongoing, special part of life. When they love it often forever.

scorpio characteristics, scorpio traits, scorpio personality traits

here is a list of some of the most prominent scorpio characteristics and personality traits

positive scorpio characteristics:

  • very supportive
  • sensual
  • intense
  • clever
  • good money management
  • loves deeply

negative scorpio characteristics

  • jealous
  • possessive
  • not trusting
  • secretive
  • asks too many questions
  • wants to control others
  • unforgiving

my scorpio boyfriend…

well I actually never had a scorpio boyfriend, but if I did, I think he would be

  • charming
  • intelligent
  • energetic
  • thoughtful
  • kind
  • caring
  • affectionate
  • humourus
  • genuine

The scorpio love matches, and scorpio love

again scorpios are very passionate caring people, when they marry they will do almost anything to make sure the marriage runs smoothly and the love flows regulary, from husband to wife and from wife to husband. Scorpios love to support and care for their partners. Scorpio love matches could be almost anyone because scorpios one you really get to know them…can get along with just about anyone. Here is the list of top 3 compatibility scorpio love matches

pisces – is sensitive and loving just as much as scorpio
cancer – is sensitvie and dedicated just as much as the scorpio zodiac signs
virgo – this sign is stable and grounded good for the water sign scorpio
to read more about scorpio personality click here
to read about scorpio compatibility with all 12 star signs click here

here are some excerpts from my web page on the scorpio zodiac personality

realistic as opposed to superficial: Scorpio personality is a very realistic down to earth water sign. They opt for the real over the superficial cause they know when it comes down to it all you really have is what is real. Fake only takes you back to the real any way. So they opt for the authentic to begin with. Such as jobs that help others, or deal with real issues.

predictable: Scorpio personality is a “fixed” astrology signs like things that are predictable. This is why jobs that always change don’t interest this sign. They like to know what to expect, because to ascorpio, a changing work place means constantly adjusting behaviours and the potential for things to go awry.
Virgo Boyfriend & Virgo Man , Scorpio Boyfriend & Scorpio Man Sagittarius Boyfriend & Sagittarius Man  , Libra Boyfriend & Libra Man  , Gemini Boyfriend &Gemini ManAquarius Boyfriend & Aquarius ManGemini Boyfriend & Gemini Man , Cancer Boyfriend & Cancer BoyfriendPisces Boyfriend &Pisces Man Capricorn Boyfriend & Capricorn Man  

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Sagittarius Boyfriend

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Sagittarius Boyfriends are real Gentlemen

The sagittarius male is the best male of the zodiac, to date, fall in love with, marry and anything else. The sagittarius male is a keeper. Why? Why am I raving about the sagittarius male? Because he is classy, sophistcated, has his life together, and puts the happiness and comfort of his lady as number 1 in his life. This is all true.

I missed my Sag Husband….

I had one Sagittarius boyfriend…he treated me like a princess…he always listened to me…always said yes to anything I wanted…always did his best to make me feel comfortable…he was great…i didnt realize these things back then, I think I was too young at the time to appreciate these qualities in a man. Now I realize those are the ingredients of a man you want to marry.



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Sagittarius Boyfriends great breadwinners!

Most sagittarius men have good paying jobs because they understand the importance of earning a good living and that the amount of money can  have is directly related to how easily you can do the thing you want to do in life…like buying fancy cars of going on shopping sprees, or or having the finances to afford that in a beautiful home.

Sagittarius Guy took me on a shopping spree …

I dated another sagittarius man many years later…for our first date he took me on a shopping spree…and didnt give me any restrictions. He was stock trader so he could afford to splurge on a woman he didnt even know. Obviously that one didnt work out. Oh well, he wasnt my type anyway.

 

Sagittarius men want a woman with Class!

I did date another one when I was in montreal. He was a wonderful guy. I think I wasnt good enough for him. He wanted a woman with class….at the time I had none. He was in his early 40s, I was 19 years old. Just being honest. again I was too young to appreciate a Sagitarius man in all his splendor at that time. Any who if you are an air sign (libra or aquarius only) or a Fires sign ( sagittarius leo aries) a sagittarius man is a good love match for you. Bye for now.

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Jamaican men – Meet Mr. Bumpy!

 

b1 b2hello my nick name is Bumpy. They call me this in Jamaica, my real name is Lanceford. I often dress very stylish, in jeans and a men’s  dress shirt and I am a young looking 55 year old male. I work doing motorcycle taxi in Jamaica in the little London in the westmoreland area. I have two grown sons ages 33 and 32. I own my own home, and have a brand new puppy named corporal.



I love life, love to laugh and enjoy spending time with that special lady. I am seeking a foreign woman between the age of 36 – 45 of any nationality for love, friendship, laughter and relationship. I love to talk about anything and everything, and I am hoping to find my soul-mate. My zodiac sign is Gemini and I am easy to talk to. I have a cell phone you can call if you are a foreign woman and would like us to get to know each other. Call 876 557 6527 Hope to talk to you soon.
Bumpy.

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How to Cook for a Jamaican Man


How to Cook for a Jamaican Man

how to cook for a jamaican man
A Jamaican mans mind-set may be different from yours when it comes to the types of food he likes to eat and the flavors enjoys. I created this blog post to provide some tips on how to cook for your Jamaican man so that he is feeling happy and satisfied at the end of his meal! Enjoy! Here are 3 tips, just for your knowledge,  before we address what Jamaican food is best to cook for your King.

  1. Setting the Mood– If you are planning to cook some food for your Jamaican man, be sure the mood is right. Don’t have too much noise in the preferred dining area, and be sure the entire space, and more specifically his eating space is clean and clutter free. Jamaicans are very picky about cleanliness especially when and where they eat.
  2. Jamaican man Taste Buds! – Your Jamaican mans  taste buds arehow to cook for a jamaican man probably different from your own. His taste buds are used to food bursting with Caribbean flavors and Caribbean seasonings. If he was raised by a Jamaican Mother, then his intestinal tract is used to these special flavors too. When you serve your Jamaican man food, just know he expects it to taste good. If it does not taste good, he will be truly disappointed, actually his taste buds will be truly disappointed.
  3. After the Meal –Jamaicans in general like to enjoy a lot of quiet time. That is just our Culture. I find that after a meal is a time when many Jamaicans would rather not engage in too heavy conversation. After your Jamaican man eats his meal. Give him his space to digest his food, and enjoy the feeling of being satiated. He will appreciate that you thought of him in this way. If he wants to engage in conversation after he has finished his Delicious meal, allow him to be the one to initiate it with you and not the other way around.

So….What should you cook for your Jamaican man?

how to cook for a jamaican

*click the links below to get Jamaican food recipes for each!*

My top 5  Jamaican food dinner choices!

  1. Jamaican Stew Chicken – (My personal favorite Jamaican dinner) jamaican stew chicken cooking recipeJamaican stew chicken tastes like heaven in Chicken, but at the same time is light, and not too heavy. Just a great flavorful chicken meal. Click here for the Jamaican Stew Chicken Cooking Recipes
  2. Jamaican Ox Tail – Jamaican Ox tail is loved by many, especially Jamaican men. It hits the spot, and the flavors are totally out of this world. Click here for the Jamaican Ox Tail Cooking Recipe.
  3. Jamaican Curry GoatJamaican curried goat is a Jamaican classic. So many people order this meal, in Jamaican restaurants. To me one has to be “in the mood” to enjoy Jamaican curried goat. Click here for Jamaican Curried Goat Cooking Recipe.
  4. Jamaican Jerk Chicken – This is another Jamaican food Classic. Those who love hot and spicy food, tend to request Jamaican Jerk20130715-jerk-chicken-final-food-lab-38 Chicken, be sure to by the special Jamaican Jerk Seasoning. I would shy away from this one if its your first time. I tried to cook it once, and totally over did the Jerk seasoning. I couldn’t taste the food. Click her for Jamaican Jerk chicken cooking recipe.
  5. Ackee and Salt Fish – Ackee and Saltfish is another Jamaican food Classic. Ackee and Saltfish is typically eaten at breakfast time by Jamaican people, however it is so good that we eat it any time of day. But again, you sort of have to be in the mood  to really enjoy Ackee and Saltfish. It tastes delicious, is a little salty, but in a good way. If its your first time cooking a Jamaican meal. I would shy away from this one,  until you get to practice it a few times on your own. Jamaican Ackee and Saltfish Cooking  Recipe.

If you want my opinion…if it’s your first time cooking Jamaican food, I would try cooking the Jamaican stew chicken. Do a run through before that special day, then on that day you will be more prepared.

 

More tips to Cook for your Jamaican Man

  1. Hot foodMake sure the food is piping hot– Jamaicans don’t like food that is kind of hot they like it piping hot.
  2. Try to serve food that is heavy – Jamaicans people are used to eating food that is not only flavorful but also heavy. So, that when we eat it, we don’t feel hungry after wards
    Don’t be afraid to use some pepper and some spices– I think a lot of Jamaicans expect food to be spicy and have some pepper in it. Serve the hot sauce bottle “on the side”…this is common Jamaican culture.
  3. Include a fresh leafy Salad – I don’t know why, Jamaicans love having Fresh leafy greens on their dinner plate. I think fresh salad goes well with all the spices that people are used to eating in the Caribbean.  In case you were wondering Jamaicans typically like french dressing with their salad or Ranch.
  4. Big cold tasty drink – In Jamaica many of the drinks are very cold jamaican drinkand very flavorful. Meant to cool you off and provide a little sweetness for the tongue. Give your Jamaican man a big tall cold tasty drink with his Jamaican food….He will love you for it. We are not picky about the type of Juice just as long as its cold…but…since you asked….Jamaicans  love to drink …pineapple Juice,  Orange Juice, Grape Juice, Lemonade
  5. A Large Serving is best! – I almost forgot…in Jamaican culture, to serve a Jamaican person a small plate of food is sort of disrespectful…It is always best to serve a large portion of food so that the person doesn’t have to say, “Can I have some more please?” So, be sure the food is high and wide on the plate. Very Important!!!
  6. Bring him his food In Jamaican culture it is common that the woman brings the man his food where ever he is. Yes, and that they may not enjoy a meal together. Jamaican women don’t take it personal. They Just get on with their duties. You may consider doing the same for your Jamaican man. But, just keep in mind if you do it once, he may expect it again and again.

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Blessed. King Selassie I.

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